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How can you be sure you’ve found “the one”? How do you know when it’s time to leave a relationship that’s turning toxic? Godly Dating 101 answers these questions and more in a practical guide that will help young Christians develop authentic and healthy dating relationships.

With more than three million followers across Godly Dating 101’s social media accounts, Tovares and Safa Grey hear daily from hundreds of young adults looking for help in their current struggles regarding relationships and purity. Deep down, many Christian young adults are wondering if their relationships are drawing them closer to God or leading them back to the life from which Jesus freed them.

Godly Dating 101 addresses what you hear from culture and contrasts it with Scripture. As the authors candidly cover topics like friends with benefits, pornography, masturbation, and other areas that affect future marriages, you gain an understanding that what’s considered normal or “fun” from the world’s perspective may not be God’s will for your life. Discover:

  • You are not alone in your relationship struggles;
  • God can extend grace and restoration to you no matter what;
  • Scripture that points you back to Jesus and what He says about relationships; and
  • How to find and sustain a relationship that honors God.

This encouraging message will empower you to rise out of confusion, toxic environments, and sin so that you can follow Jesus passionately and experience abundant life in Him as you nurture and develop healthy relationships.

Tovares and Safa Grey

about the authors

Tovares Grey is a believer, husband of Safa, and father of two. He is a social media content creator that focuses his work on Christianity and relationships. Tovares has always had a passion for serving and helping people find hope, joy, and intimacy with Jesus despite what life may be throwing their way. He started the Godly Dating 101 ministry in 2012 as a single individual trying to learn how to date God's way and help others on that journey as well. As a Christian content creator, he has a burden to share with his generation the benefits of honoring Christ in all of our decisions. He is a U.S. Navy veteran and currently resides in Tampa, Florida, where he is pursuing a master's degree in health administration at the University of South Florida.

Safa Grey has always had a passion for writing, through journaling and poetry specifically. Others know her by her singing ability as she's always been a praise and worship leader in her local church. Growing up, writing always provided her an outlet for her prayers and expressing herself. Because she herself did not always have a young female role model in her adolescent youth, Safa is determined to always help young ladies who are in the same shoes she was in. As a Christian content creator, Safa has a desire to help young adults find their worth in Christ rather than the opinions of modern culture. She was born in Jamaica and now resides in Tampa, Florida, with her husband, Tovares, and their two children.

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